Purpose: Work out your real share of something that went wrong, and put down the rest.
When to use: Use this when you are taking the whole weight of something on yourself.
Worksheet prompts
- What went wrong, and how much of it are you taking on?
- List everyone and everything else that played a part.
Timing, other people, money, luck, things nobody told you. - Now, what part was actually yours? Say it plainly and stop there.
- What would you do differently, knowing what you know now?
Your share is worth owning. The rest was never yours to carry.