Purpose: For the feelings that using has been quieting, and what else might take the edge off.
When to use: Use this after a day when the feeling got bigger than you could hold.
Worksheet prompts
- Which feeling is hardest for you to sit with?
Anger, panic, emptiness, missing someone, being ashamed. - What does using do to that feeling, and how long does it hold?
- What else has taken the edge off, even a little?
- What will you reach for first next time it gets loud?
Feelings that big are hard to carry. Wanting them quieter makes sense.